Church Parsonage | Should A Minister Buy A Home?

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A very important decision that many ministers and pastors will face is making the decision between purchasing their own home and staying in a church owned parsonage.  In a previous generation, a church parsonage was the common way to house a church minister.  However, there are fewer and fewer churches that offer a parsonage as part of their compensation.  It is impossible to fully account for a minister’s salary without carefully looking at the housing options.

What is a church parsonage?

For those of you unfamiliar with the term, a parsonage is a home owned by a church used to provide housing to their minister. 

Typically, a church will offer a minister a home at no cost.  This home is offer is typically in place of an increase in salary.  Thus, if the fair rental value of a church parsonage is $1,000, the minister would be given the home and a salary of around $1,000 less than the minister would otherwise make.

The Benefits of the Parsonage

  1. Flexibility – Some churches (unfortunately) cycle through ministers like a Brita filter.  Every couple of years it is time for a replacement.  The advantage for the minister is that he does not need to look for housing as it is conveniently provided.  In addition, when it is time to move, there is no concern about selling a piece of property.
  2. Location – Most parsonages are located very close to the church property.  This means the minister can often walk to work and come home during lunch hour.  Remember, eating at home is cheaper than eating out.
  3. Possible housing upgrade – Depending on the condition of the parsonage, the minister may be able to live in a nicer facility than he or she would otherwise had been able to afford.  Similarly, the minister may be able to live in a nicer neighborhood that the family might not otherwise be able to afford.

Disadvantages of Living in the Church Parsonage

  1. Loss of equity – Let’s say that Preacher Paul took a job at the All Christian Church.  Preacher Paul does his ministry with the congregation for 15 years.  During that 15 year period, the church provided him with a home where the fair rental value was $1,000.  At the end of the 15 year period Preacher Paul now has whatever he was able to save during that time period, but nothing more.  That is all well and fine as long as Preacher Paul continues to preach.  However, at retirement he may find himself seriously behind when it comes to the necessary funds to buy a home.  If, however, Preacher Paul purchased his own home, he would have all of the equity from 15 years of homeownership.
  2. Miss out on the double deduction.  While a minister who lives in a parsonage can deduct the fair rental value from income tax, he will still be required to pay social security on the fair rental value.  On the other hand, a person who makes a house payment will also be able to take a deduction for the interest payments.  Thus, ultimately the minister misses out on potential tax deductions.
  3. Location – Some ministers say that living close to the church building makes it harder to transition from ministry to personal life.  When you play in the yard with your kids, folks doing work at the church might be ‘watching’.  When someone ends up at the church without keys, they might come knocking on your door.
  4. Maintenance responsibilities.  Unless there is clear communication, there might be some misunderstanding about who pays the bills.  When something breaks, the minister might feel more like a renter if he is forced to wait on church approval for funds to fix a broken water heater. 

My Thoughts Regarding a Church Parsonage

Some churches simply cannot afford a full salary, and the parsonage is an excellent way for them to be able to have a local minister and pay a salary.  If you work with a smaller church there is a good chance you will be offered a church parsonage.

If possible, I do think that the minister should be allotted an ‘equity stipend’ if they stay in a church parsonage.  This is a monthly or annual payment that can be used for long term investing.  This way, when the minister moves, there will be some funds available for purchasing a house. 

When I was first married, my wife and I did live in a church parsonage.  During that stage in our life, it was perfect for us.  We only had a short term agreement with the church (2 years), and if we didn’t stay in the parsonage we probably would have lived 20+ miles from the church (to find a location we could afford).  The house was much bigger than we would have rented, so we were able to do a lot more hosting.

However, at this point in our lives if we were to be located with a local congregation, I would probably strongly lean towards a personal home.  There are a lot of personal advantages to owning your own home. 

Do you think ministers are just being picky if they refuse a roof over their heads?  Is a parsonage a good idea?  Does your church own a parsonage?


  1. says

    There are a ton of expenses associated with home ownership that people overlook or underestimate. Plumbing, roofing, siding, appliances, furnace, carpet, etc, not to mention the 6% fee to the real-estate agent when you want to sell it.

    Would be hard to beat a free living arrangement like a parsonage, taking everything into account.

    • says

      Thanks. As a minister all housing repairs can be included in the designated housing allowance. In addition, some churches do not pay for repairs so some of these costs could still be transfered to the minister.

    • says

      We had a family bring us dnnier once a week for a month for christmas. It saved a little bit of money (and at christmas time every little bit helps). I think the bigger benefit was that we had more family time. But I love this question because what if everybody in the church shared possessions more freely with each other? How much money would that save?

    • kaylor arant says

      WOW. You have no idea what your talking about. My husband and I have been in the ministry for 12 years and have zero equity. We have nothing except what we can save, which is NOTHING on a pastor salary…especially when you factor in the student loans we are still paying due to the seminary education required to get this stupid salary. A seminary education costs as much as many law degrees do, without the possibility of income to combat it. We have ZERO say in our own “home”, and people think they can just come over whenever they want. I have lived in 4 different church parsonages, and not a SINGLE ONE of them would have passed a home inspection. Our most recent church had “drain worms” in the shower (yes little worms that crawled out mid shower), a crumbling foundation, mold, indoor door knobs that won’t shut, broken windows in the basement, appliances that break regularly, and a FRONT DOOR THAT WONT LOCK. Guess what- we pastor to an upper-middle class largely white population in the south. Your most “churchy” group of people. We are not talking about a poor community who cannot help this situation. We are JUST getting to the point where we can afford a mortgage, but we don’t qualify for “first home 0% down” BECAUSE WE LIVE IN THE PARSONAGE. So now we have to save up for that as well…with 4 kids. Not to mention its hard for me (the wife) to get any decent job (with a college degree) because we move to much. We are literally TRAPPED. A parsonage is a clever disguise the church uses to get to pay someone pitiful salary while at the same time enjoying the equity they build over time, that the pastor pays taxes on BUT NEVER GETS TO OWN or make any choices on. Lets not forget to mention the HORRIBLE feelings it causes the preacher’s family when a church “doesn’t have the money to fix the front door lock in the parsonages that house 4 small kids!!!! its a very sad joke. How would you like not owning ANYTHING in your 40′s, 50′s, and beyond??? People would keep their mouths shut unless they have first hand knowledge on subjects. and until you have sacrificed everything for ministry and gotten NOTHING back….don’t even.
      And don’t even tell me that we should get out of the ministry…because we would have no means to get a job to continue to laughably provide for our 4 kids….or especially to BUY A HOUSE THEN!

      People say they would enjoy a “free house…within reason”. YOU DON’T GET A FREE HOUSE!!! And certainly not get a salary that can provide even basics. My husband had to join the Naval reserves, and I have three jobs to make ends meat. You actually GET nothing. When you leave, YOU HAVE NOTHING. Nothing to use as a means to borrow against for your kids education, or health needs. NOTHING. You are basically no better off than a college kid fresh out of a dorm.

  2. Rex Osborn says

    Question for the experts, our minister does not want to live in the church furnished parsonage but wants to stay in his own home. Can the church legally give him a housing allowance for his current home, thereby, leaving the parsonage empty?

    • says

      First, I’m not an expert. But, as far as I understand it that would be fine. At least I’ve been associated with churches that do the exact same thing. I’m not aware of any IRS code that requires the use of a parsonage.
      You may want to make a quick call to a lawyer or accountant who deals with these types of things.

      • Alice says

        Your article states that fewer churches are offering a parsonage. Do you have
        any statistics or a reference for that statement?

        • says

          No statistical information. My feedback is based on experience in ministry for 10 years with friends working as ministers all over the country. Of the 35 people I graduated with only one lives in a parsonage. Dial the clock back 50 years and the percentage would be much higher.

          Thanks for the good question.

    • kaylor arant says

      rent the house to someone who wants to live there. but being a pastors wife, I bet you will have a hard time finding someone. Every parsonage I have lived in has been squalor

  3. Terry Wildman says

    Can a church or religious non profit designate an RV being used for ministry as a parsonage if the minister does not own a home?

    • says

      Thanks for the question.
      Unfortunately, I don’t know the answer. You’ll need to speak with a certified accountant about that. Sounds like an interesting scenario. When you do find out I’d be interested to know.
      My guess is that if the church owns the RV that is possible, but not if the minister owns it.

      • Terry Wildman says

        I’ve submitted this question to the IRS for an answer. They couldn’t answer on the phone and are researching it now. What might complicate this is that the RV is also being used for full time ministry on the road. So its a combination of a ministry vehicle and a parsonage. I will let you know how it turns out. They said they should have an answer in a couple of weeks.

          • says

            Thanks for your reflections on one of Jesus’ tehguor teachings, Wess. So, does John 19.26-27, when Christ gives his mother to the beloved disciple and vice versa constitute the summation of his faithful betrayal to his family? Even as he distances himself by calling the beloved disciple Mary’s son, he provides for her needs as any faithful son would.

  4. Dustin Bannister says

    Greetings Craig,

    I am wondering if you have any sources for documentation? I’m looking to do a research paper on this very topic and need some good primary sources. Thanks!

    • says

      Thanks for the comment. I’m not really sure what parts of the article would need (or could be) sourced. The article mostly just introduces the advantages and disadvantages.

      • says

        I have a few photos of the Cornell Avenue chrcuh when it was our family business run as E.T.VanBuren and Sons. I worked with/fpr my Dad in his business from the time I was a young gal .in several capacities (Saturday a.m. duster of our hardware department, head of our toy store, bookkeeper, printer of the VB News and sales clerk).

    • says

      Just wanted to send you lnvoig greetings having seen your great friendly site and its so good to hear you followed the inspiration and have set up a Church of Christ Scientist in JP. Just been praying for our service in Bath U.K, that it will help and heal through the words of our Pastor, and including all Churches (congregations) everywhere. Much love to you.Jill Hood

  5. Kyle D says

    I started at a church in 07 and they offered me a parsonage. It was great for a young guy out of college. I was told 30K a year, and a parsonage. I didn’t realize they would take out about 4K for living in the parsonage(per year). I thought those numbers would be separated and didn’t think the 4K was coming out of the 30K. Did they word it wrong or did I just misunderstand it? I’ve brought the situation up to others and they felt like it was illegal but nothing was ever done. I’ve since bought a home but to be honest still a little bitter about the 10K that the church got from my employment while I lived there when I thought the deal was, “we wish we could pay you more, but here’s a free place to stay.” And it is heart breaking because our preacher has lived in his parsonage 29 years…..when he retires he’s got nothing

    • says

      You asked “did they word is wrong or did I just misunderstand”?
      I’m guessing the answer is both.
      I’m very sorry that you had this type of misunderstanding as it does hurt. You probably felt under valued and under appreciated.
      The important lesson for all of us is that it is much harder to misunderstand something in writing. I doubt the church intended to deceive you. Instead it was a communication failure.

      • says

        Your place does sound great. I love all of the wildlife you get there. The legonr I live the more I think I could live in a cabin in the bush and be pretty happy. Not that I would want to avoid human contact. i would still want to work and have contact with civilization, but I don’t need a lot of things and I definitely could do without a lot of city-fied amenities. My office has windows all along two walls and right now I am looking out to the east at the Chugach Mountains. Nice.

  6. christy says

    From a pastors wife’s perspective, living in a manse is wonderful in many respects. My only concern is that we will have no place to go when we retire. We have several children and I do wish I could say to them, Yes we may have an indoor dog or Sure, go build a fort in that tree. I would like to have a place they could really call home.

  7. Carol Bickford says

    I don’t understand how people like Joice meyers can buy homes with the church’s money for all of her children and herself? And then not have to pay property taxes on any of those homes, it doesnt seem fair to me, and I’m going to think twice before donating money to a large ministry, which is very sad because I never thought twice before. Carol Bickford

    • says

      I have no idea what Joyce Meyers is doing with her money and real estate. However, to clarify a parsonage allowance does not exempt a person from paying property taxes. Instead, property taxes are part of the parsonage allowance and are excluded from taxes.
      Furthermore, what you are describing is someone doing exactly what the law entitles a person to do (if she owns the houses they can be part of her parsonage allowance). I’m sure that if the IRS changed the law all ministers would change their practices. This not an issue of ethics, but a disagreement with a government regulation.

  8. Michael says

    Another “issue” with living in a church- provided parsonage: If he should decide to buy a home after living in a parsonage (say he is called to another church that doesn’t have a parsonage, or he simply desires to buy and thus build up equity) – mortgage underwriters are now not too friendly with anyone who has no “housing record” – aka – a history of paying rent or previous mortgage. We are going through that right now.

      • says

        I would really love to start binkig to work in the winter, but I have to admit I’m a little intimidated by it. The snow has been so high and out into the road that I am not sure I could get all the way to work without having to ride out onto Lake Otis Parkway, which I am not willing to do. Also, I think my limit might be like 10F and it has been around -10 at my house for much of the last month.

  9. Michael says

    One other perspective – A pastor buying a home can have the church designate a portion of his salary as “housing allowance” (it must be official and indicated in the church minutes or other official documentation). This housing allowance can be not only the cost of mortgage payment, insurance, utilities, all maintenance and upkeep, furnishings, etc. This amount is non-taxable (Federal Income tax purposes, check with state or local). It is taxable for Social Security purposes (but then again, so is the fair rental value and utility allowance of a church parsonage). But in the case of owning, you have something to show for it after all is said and done.

  10. says

    I am now in my second pastorate. My first involved a church-provided parsonage. My current position does not provide a parsonage (a young church).

    In the first case, the church provided the parsonage + a housing allowance to cover utilities and related expenses (and they took care of upkeep…sort of).

    In my current position, we chose to purchase a home, as the church does not own a parsonage. We have a portion of my compensation allotted to “housing”. The allowance includes our total house payment, estimate of utility costs, and maintenance. The key is documentation.

    The long and short:

    1. allowance amount must be designated in church minutes and may not be allotted retroactively.

    2. All expenses related to “providing housing” are eligible to be counted under this allowance. The key is documentation. Keep all receipts and copies of utility bills.

    3. You cannot include in your non-taxable total what you spend over the designated allowance.

    4. You must include any unspent/undocumented housing amounts in your taxable income.

  11. John says

    Our church “owns” a parsonage, but the pastor is paying the mortgage and will receive the equity. They are not paying property taxes on the property since it is in the church’s name. Is this legal?

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